Rhoneisms

This day, this hour, this minute, this moment. This is what you’ve got.
The tools, the ability, the skill, the time, the opportunity. Everything you face right now, this moment, you face with these. You may take away from this place more than you came with, but what you brought to it is all you have.
There is nothing you can do to change this fact. Everything that can be done right here, right now, can only be done right here, right now. You might be able to do more later and there are things you might have been able to do before. But neither of these desires matter now, in this moment, and only keep one from facing the truth.
So, here it is. The time is now. Give it your all.
You’ve got this.

More meanderings and things ventured from the last several days….

I really appreciated waking up this morning to Randy Murray’s wonderful take on the higher calling of art. It helped speak directly to something I’ve been trying to put some though into lately. I especially liked this:

Earning a living is a necessity for most of us, but only that, a necessity. Art is not a promise of fame or fortune. Art is a way to express oneself.

Or, as I like to put it: Surviving can keep you from living.

Tikker is a decidedly new take on a watch. Not only does it tell you the time but it also counts down the life you have left, from years to seconds, and helps keep you aware of making each moment count. The product page was a bit unclear as to how it figures out how much time we have left (and, obviously, it can’t know for sure). So, I did some digging and here is what I found:

The wearer simply fills out a questionnaire, deducts his/her current age from the results, and TIKKER is ready to start the countdown.

My guess it is some calculation of age, weight, diet, vices, etc. It is an interesting idea for sure.

Lots of really great stuff coming out of the recent XOXO Fest a few weeks back. I’m really kicking myself for not making the effort to go and plan to rectify that next year. My only consolation is some of the great thoughts, ideas, and takeaways people are sharing that did attend. Glenn Fleishman’s take, In a Time of Hugs and Kisses, was a nicely compelling and informative spin on what it was like to attend. Pinboard.in founder Maciej Ceglowski posted the notes and slides of his talk, Thoreau 2.0. Which as a huge Thoreau fan both exposed some of the seeming contradictions between the author’s views and his lifestyle and how the way he actually lived might be better for us. And Frank Chimero’s The Inferno Of Independence just may be the best piece on the state of the internet today that I have read all year.

Lots of my friends are updating a releasing lots of cool stuff lately. My friend Brett Kelly recently released the latest version of his excellent Evernote Essentials which is currently half price but wont be for much longer. My friend Brad Dowdy and his partner have officially launched the Kickstarter for their new pen/pencil/notebook case venture, Nock Co.. My friend Nick Wynja recently released his Pinboard based Read-It-Later service, Paperback… It’s nice to be in such creative company.

Of course, I released the audiobook version of my Apple Consulting Guide and launched The Unrecorded Podcast last week so I have been busy trying to keep up in the shipping department too.

That covers it for now. Have a great week.

Today I launched a new project with some friends — The Unrecorded Podcast. This is the story of what it is and how it came to be.

The first most recent time CJ Chilvers, Dave Caolo, and myself got together for a late night chat, it was not recorded. These chats we had done before as an ad hoc support group. Fellow writers of like mind bouncing crazy ideas and half-cooked schemes off each other in the hopes they might turn into something (or, at the very least, ensure an audience of two to watch the failure).

Toward the end of the call, I half-joked that we should have recorded the conversation. We three get along quite well and are of similar stripes and interests. I had often thought about doing a podcast with these gentlemen. Then again, it was sort of nice to simply be able to talk freely among friends without anyone else listening in. Not everything has to be shared. So, the idea to record it was scrapped.

In a follow up email, CJ had titled our talk The Unrecorded Podcast. This, of course, set my mind to spinning. I wondered how far one might take such an idea. Would such a thing be a live show? Would it actually be recorded and simply have an ironic name? I wasn’t sure. But, I was sure it was an idea that would not leave me alone until we figured it out.

So, for our next conversation we decided to try recording it. Just to see what happened. To see if there was a “there” there. Turned out there was. Too much so in fact. Dave, CJ, and I could chat for hours (and often do) across a iety of topics (and deep knowledge of a LOT of 1980s hairbands). To say we digress into ratholes far and deep is an understatement. And. to limit that would take away the very reason we enjoyed it. To release it as a podcast would mean audio files that measured in gigabytes and an unreasonable assumption of people’s available time.

But then, we started to brainstorm the idea even further. What if we really didn’t record it but treated it like a podcast in every other way? What if it had a schedule, and guests, and show notes? And, what if people got these show notes as a newsletter — a brief description and list of links that, without context, seemed random and mysterious yet strangely interesting? And what if, like any other podcast we had guests on occasionally to add to the conversation? And, what if we picked one the the subscribers to the email list at random to come join us from time to time? Would people get the beauty and the irony or would it break their brains?

The fact is that some of the world’s most famous art is art because of such mysteries: Why is Mona smiling? What happened to Venus’ arm? Why is that tower leaning? What the heck was Dali smoking? In the same way, this would be a podcast that is really a newsletter. A performance that nobody sees performed. A dispatch born of things unknown. We give the answers, you guess the questions. The best art, it seems, is inherently brain-breaking and is worth doing for no better reason than that.

So, this is how The Unrecorded Podcast came to be. You can sign up to enjoy the show notes in your email inbox as new episodes are not recorded. We already are lining up some great guests to come on and chat with us. We’re sure you’ll be happy to not hear them, yet still get lots of important things to take away from what they have to say. Things that could help.

Become an unlistener today. You won’t regret it.

We buy into things. What things? All things. Even the things we don’t buy but get for free.
For instance, let’s say you buy a shirt. How many times will you wash that shirt in the time you own it? How much water and soap and electricity will that cost? How much added labor will you expend to fold it and put it away?
Furthermore, we buy into the idea of that shirt. That that shirt will serve us. That it will keep us warm. That it will serve the need that we have. That without that particular shirt that need will be unfulfilled.
And, when it no longer served you, did you give it away? Did you take it out of the drawer? Did you drive it to a thrift store? Did you hand it to a friend? Tear it up into rags? How much time did that take?
Perhaps you put it in the garbage. Do you hire a garbage company or does the city handle that through your taxes?
The moment that shirt entered your life you bought into that shirt. You paid for it in a myriad of ways far beyond it’s actual value.
Ownership of anything is a commitment to that thing and it has a cost — a direct personal cost — beyond the cost of the thing.
The harder question to answer is this: Was it worth it?

Reflect on your deepest held beliefs and convictions .
Anything that you know for sure, deep down inside, should be able to withstand such questioning.
Challenge them. Open them up to debate. Invite their contention.
Because, it is the only way to maintain your continued certainty.
Because, such reflection will allow further introspection on the values you hold dear.
Because , these are the things we should meditating and dwelling on.
Because, it is the only way to make sure they are not wrong.
Because, it is the only way to discover if they are.
Because, it may be the only opportunity you have to change them if the above is so.
But, should they survive the melee — if they are, in fact, certainties worth your conviction…
Just as steel is hardened by tension and force, so too are the values and ideas we believe most true.

Some Observations On Making Good Coffee

My daughter starts school an hour later now. Also, the last box that I received from Bespoke Post was coffee related and included a lovely French Press. These two events have given me the excuse to try to make better coffee in the morning. I’ve found the results OK so far but have come to realize that good coffee is an art that I need to work at. Which I’m fine with, actually. I’ve been open to suggestions and done some research on this but have come to realize that it is highly subjective and I just have to find the right process, measurements, and ingredients for me. That "good coffee" is a matter of personal taste and there is no right way.

For instance, despite my wife’s graciousness in giving my attempts at making a better cup of coffee this weekend a fair shot, it was discovered (by me at least) that she just plain likes coffee made in our old drip machine. And that is fine. As I said, the best lesson I have learned through this is that people like what they like.

I have found for myself that I never add sugar to good coffee. With coffee I make in the drip maker I almost always do. It’s too bitter otherwise. Because of this, my standard has become "Would sugar make this better?". I’ll know that I have reached a better cup for me when the answer is consistently "no".

This morning, I dug out my Aeropress. I have likely not used it in a couple of years. Yet, inspired by my coffee research and new found time, I decided to give it a spin. Yesterday, I purchased some Honduran beans recommend by the coffee shop I frequent. The results were excellent. A really good cup of coffee. Smooth, rich, and flavorful. No sugar needed.

My friend Garrick once interviewed Twin Cities coffee expert Jeremy Raths of The Roastery for his podcast on the subject of brewing the prefect cup. I find it interesting that, right off the bat, he pretty much summed up the subjective nature of the perfect cup. That one can only judge what seems best to them. That it is not for others to say.

One of the other things mentioned in that podcast is that most coffee is touched by over 80 people before it gets to you. From the planting, to the growing, to the picking, etc. At any point along the way, any one of those people could screw the whole thing up. When it reaches you, you are holding the work of 80 people who did their best. They didn’t screw it up.

That’s all I want from a better cup of coffee. To do my best and not screw it up. I’m getting there.

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In a further effort to get me back to posting here more here is the first in another regular series — Random Notes and Thoughts. Some of these I may loop back around to in the future with a longer dedicated post but I need to park them for now.

• I’ve actually been working and writing a lot since I got back from vacation. Just not here. I wrote a thousand words about the camera in the new iPhone 5S over at Minimal Mac. I wrote a forward for my friend Julio’s upcoming book. I have recorded about half of the audiobook version of my Apple Consulting Guide which I hope to complete the recording of this week. Plus a flood of client work. So yeah, I’ve been busy.

• I’ve also been working on a lot of personal and professional development stuff. I’ve been thinking a lot about my current consulting rate, current service offerings that have become burdens or not cost effective, and potential new services I could/should be offering. I’ve been reading Value-Based Fees by Alan Weiss but I’m not quite sure if it has the answers that apply to me and what I do. Which leads to a more interesting question which is, perhaps I should be doing different things.

• I think it is really good, especially if you work for yourself, to take a step back every once in awhile and evaluate your business top to bottom and ask the hard questions… Am I charging enough for the value I provide? Am I providing the right value to the right people? Am I in the right business in the first place? Is Starbucks hiring and do they still provide healthcare to their employees? These are all valid and worthy questions.

• But, the fact also is that I’ve let all of that get in the way of the commitment I have made to myself (and you) here and this makes me feel bad.

• Be happy with the things you can do. Don’t focus on the things you can’t.

• The fanciness of your process only reveals your resistance to the dirtiness of the work. Only the work is The Work. Everything else is an excuse.

• I don’t believe I will ever get used to not wearing a wrist watch. Mainly because when I need to know the time I never remember there is a device in my pocket that can tell me.

• I don’t quite know what it is "the kids" are listening to these days and, on the odd occasion I hear it, I just can’t understand why anyone would listen to such crap. I always imagined I would grow up to be the "old guy"’who was "down" with "the kids". I now ready to be content with being just old and not having a clue what or why the kids listen to what they do these days.

• I think that Blossom), played by Mayim Bialik in the 1980s hit TV show of the same name, would be an appropriate fashion role model for my daughter. This also makes me far more comfortable with allowing her to dress herself.

• Replace every hour you will never get back with two you wish would never end.

• Most days, I’m not sure I will ever be as satisfied by most technology as I am with a good pen and nice paper. Nor will it inspire the same feelings of possibility, expressiveness, and creativity.

• I become enamored with ideas. This site proves that.