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My word for 2025: Better

My word for 2024 was FINISH. It served me well. I wrote it at the top of the beginning of my goals list for every month and it kept me focused on making sure whatever was on that list could meet that word (i.e. that I would finish the things I started). It drove my days. I chose it because at the end of the previous year it felt like I had a lot of hanging threads. Things left undone.

I’ve chosen my word for the year 2025 and it is Better.

Not that the word is better or the idea for the word is better than my last one but it does feel very much like the next step and it’s a step up or at least forward.

Looking back on this past year, I feel like I did finish quite a bit. While I am feeling more accomplished because of that, I think I can do even… Wait for it… Better this coming year. There’s always room for improvement.

I also like the way “better” works as a word in so many different contexts. I can do a better job. I can feel better. I can be a better person. I can be better about some things. I better do others. There’s a fair amount I wish I were better at.

I had a good 2024. I’m going to make 2025 Better.

Seventeen Sweaters: RL Rugby Line Shawl Collar Sweater

I took a day off yesterday from the series because it was Christmas. Back at it again today with this sweater from Ralph Lauren’s old Rugby line. Pretty sure I bought this around the same time as the green pullover shawl featured previously. This has similar detailing with the leather elbow patches and woven buttons. I tend to wear this one a lot. Works well with a button down, repp tie, too.

Seventeen Sweaters: Engineered Garments Shawl Collar Gray Bouclé Cardigan

Happy Christmas Eve!

I have a busy day of making lefse and the rest of dinner for a dozen people tonight so we’ll make this short.

Today we have an Engineered Garments Shawl Collar Cardigan in a Gray Bouclé knit. It’s fuzzy. A ton of texture on this one. Doesn’t matter if I get pet hair all over it because you’d never see it (we have two dogs and three cats so pet hair is a constant in my wardrobe). Though from a bit of an upscale brand that references workwear, this really has seen some days working on old houses as I often do. Picked it up on end-of-season sale quite a few years ago now. More of a casual piece.

Time to make the lefse… God Jul!

Seventeen Sweaters: Charcoal Gray John Lewis Extra Fine Merino

Patrick wearing a charcoal gray John Lewis sweater

This is actually a story of two sweaters.

The first sweater is not this one. It is a Banana Republic extra fine merino in charcoal gray (which is my favorite color, by the way) that looks just like this one and that I’ve had for years. It was the sweater I wore all the time and took with me everywhere. If I was traveling it was likely the only sweater I packed — it was the perfect weight and color for layering and matched anything. Thin and light so easy to roll up and throw into a backpack. Plenty of warmth and versatility and worked perfectly in both dress up and dress down situations.

That sweater was a real work horse and I put it through its paces. It’s been out to dinner in Barcelona and deplaning onto a cold windy tarmac in Iceland. It’s been hiking and to Broadway shows. I would not be surprised if this song was actually about that sweater. It pre-dates me being with my wife so it’s well over 20 years old and looks like every minute of that time. I still have it but it’s really kind of beat up and stretched out and no longer looks great because of that. It looks used because it was used.

This sweater is basically a carbon copy of that sweater. We were in London’s Heathrow airport doing some shopping before our flight home. We stopped into the John Lewis shop and there, on a table, ON SALE was the exact copy of my favorite most worn sweater. Except, this sweater was Italian made and had a more flattering slimmer British cut. I may have even been wearing the BR sweater at the time — pretty likely. It was an instant purchase for me. It replaced the BR one seamlessly in that role.

I keep the BR one around because nostalgia does not allow me to part with it. That said, its travel days are long over and it’s at the bottom of the sweater drawer. The John Lewis has now severed me well for about 8 years now and still looks as good as the day I bought it.

Seventeen Sweaters: Costco Christmas Sweater

Another quick one…

This is a shot from our friend’s holiday party last night. Just got this sweater a few weeks ago when I was at Costco. Picked it up entirely on a whim as I passed by the clothes on the way to the bakery section and saw a batch of “Christmas Sweaters” for $10 after instant rebate and thought to myself i’d be nice to have another Christmas sweater to wear to friend’s holiday parties like this one since I don’t otherwise have anything that “christmasy” (except for the The Norwegian).

It’s cheap but served the desired purpose.

Seventeen Sweaters: J.Crew Fireman Clasp Shawl Collar Fleece

Quick one today. J.Crew Fireman Clasp Shawl Collar Fleece. This is made out of very heavyweight fleece fabric. J.Crew Cals it “outerwear fleece” on the label. So, while technically not a “sweater” per se — more of a jacket — the cardigan-like detailing make it work like one. Of note is the fireman clasps in place of traditional buttons. Perfect for casual weekend wear with a little extra flare.

Seventeen Sweaters: Shetland Shawl Pullover from RL Rugby

Today was a long busy hard day — no time for fresh photos. So you get a photo taken earlier this fall.

This is a green shetland wool shawl collar pullover. It’s from Ralph Lauren’s Rugby line. I can’t remember if I got it on massive “we’re killing this line soon” clearance or second hand. I just know I didn’t get it retail.

This is another very warm one. The shawl collar is massive. It has basketweave leather buttons and leather patches at the elbow. Looks like something one would wear to The Game and then grab some Pepe’s after to celebrate The Bulldog’s victory with your Scroll and Key brethren..

Hahvahd’s team may fight to the end
But YALE! WILL! WIN!

Investing – Essays – Yield Giving

I love words, and this year this one has been on my mind a lot. It’s another one that seems to have undergone a kind of semantic shriveling.

On the list of its big, beautiful, original definitions? To devote resources for a useful purpose. To endow with rights. To clothe.

Philanthropist MacKenzie Scott is an inspiration. What she’s doing with her billions, and how she’s doing it, is a fascinating model that others who desire to give their billions away should consider following.