Wakanda forever!
What quote scares the hell out of CJ Chilvers?
“Nothing has a stronger influence psychologically on their environment and especially on their children than the unlived life of the parent.” — Carl Jung
Michael Wade reports on preparations for Presidents Day. I think the Nixon folks have the right idea.
A good reminder to do a 30 second fact check before sharing things. I think we all need to be more careful of this. This is especially true of the numbers. (via Austin Kleon)
An Effective Team
“We are a very effective team!”
This is something Bethany and I say to each other at times when we are operating at our best. It’s a line I stole from the rather unfortunate and predictable Tom Cruise/Morgan Freeman vehicle, Oblivion.
It’s true. This comes for the fact that we both know our strengths and are honest about our weaknesses. We respect those in ourselves and each other. We know where those complement and contradict. We know how to wield such knowledge to the maximum benefit. When Bethany and I work toward a common goal, focus, and vision, we are a force.
But, it’s also true in everyday life as well. In general, we work very well together at dividing up and cooperating on the tasks of our complicated and busy lives. When people talk to us and discover how many different things we are juggling at any given moment and wonder how we manage to do it all, it’s because we work very well together.
We’re an effective team.
The only thing that will stop a bad guy with a constitutional amendment is a good guy with a constitutional amendment.
Nicholas Bate gives us 22 Ways to Be More Effective. “Effective” is a word we use frequently in our household (more on that later). This is important.
A little girl was in a drawing lesson. [The teacher] said, “What are you drawing?” And the girl said, “I’m drawing a picture of God.” And the teacher said, “But nobody knows what God looks like.” And the girl said, “They will in a minute.”
— Sir Ken Robinson
The Best Choice I Make
Bethany and I don’t need each other. The truth is, we were doing pretty well on our own before. When we met, she was in the process of getting a divorce. I had gone through a divorce several years earlier and had primary custody of my two sons. We both had houses. We both had lives. We were both relatively financially stable. We both were at tail ends of relationships. Neither of us were looking to get into a new one anytime soon.
The truth is that, even today, Bethany and I would be just fine on our own. But, we choose to be together. We make that choice because we know that even if we would be fine on our own we are at our best together.
Being together is a choice we make, daily. Every moment. Before every embrace. After every argument. In the smooth and the rough, we choose. We choose to work for it. We choose to fight for it. We choose to love.
We choose to be at our best. And that choice, means being together.
It’s the best choice I make every day.