My condolences on your and Bethany's loss. There's very little one can say but, "we're thinking about you." And I am. And to your comment, "During times like these, GTD goes out the window." Actually, this is the time that all of the GTD-fu pays off. You've done the work, organized and prepared, so you can deal with surprises. And when time passes and you're ready to return to getting other things done, they'll all be there, waiting and ready. On a lighter note, for those of you who haven't met Patrick, I was reminded today just how much he looks like Lionel Richie. What a good looking guy!